The Gulland Family Update

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June 22, 2008

Monthly Column

Hey everyone!

I now have a published monthly column online on Positively Feminine. Here is a link to my very first column: http://www.positivelyfeminine.org/professional/sg/summerwork.htm. Check it out and let me know what you think.

I hope that this finds you all doing well and enjoying the summer!

Love to you all! Stephanie

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June 02, 2008

Me! Me! Me!

By Dave Boehi

If you went through premarriage counseling, you may recall some of the subjects you discussed with your pastor or counselor—things like communication, personality differences, finances, and resolving conflict. But you probably didn’t hear your counselor say anything like this:


“Barbara, I want you to look at Dennis. Do you realize he’s a wretch? He’s selfish, and he’s potentially an adulterer and liar.”

“Dennis, look Barbara in the eyes. Do you realize who you are about to marry? Another wretch."


These words obviously had an impact on Dennis Rainey, who tells this story about his own premarriage counseling in a recent FamilyLife Today broadcast. And from my experience in marriage I have concluded that an honest discussion of our sinfulness ought to be part of any basic premarriage curriculum.

In recent years I’ve become more aware than ever that I face a never-ending battle against my natural sinfulness and selfishness. As I go through each day, my thoughts are often focused on what I want and what I need. I think about how I look … what I’m about to do … what I wish I was doing … what I will do after work … what I want to say and eat and watch and read. Life is all about Me! Me! Me!


And that makes marriage a challenge, because I married a woman who, for some strange reason, doesn’t always agree with what I want. She has Me! issues of her own. We all do.

Some may think these words are a bit harsh. What good does it do to dwell on the fact that we are sinners?

I would agree—if that’s where I stopped. But there are a number of practical benefits to acknowledging that we are sinners. For one thing, only when we acknowledge our sin will we truly understand grace.

In his book, When Sinners Say ‘I Do,’ Dave Harvey writes:


To say “I am a sinner” is to stare boldly at a fundamental reality that many people don’t even want to glance at. But when we acknowledge that painful reality in our lives, several great things become clear. We find ourselves in good company—the heroes of our faith, from Old Testament times to the present, who experienced the battle with sin on the front lines. We also acknowledge what everybody around us already knows—particularly our spouses. But, by far the greatest benefit of acknowledging our sinfulness is that it makes Christ and his work precious to us. Like Jesus said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I have not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance (Luke 5:31-32).” Only sinners need a savior.

Acknowledging my sin helps me view myself honestly and without pretense. I know what I am and what I am capable of doing. And that makes Christ’s work on the cross all the sweeter.

And then consider that the relationship of a man and woman in marriage is a picture of Christ and His church. When we demonstrate to our spouses the same grace that Christ demonstrated to us, we experience true oneness in marriage.

My wife loves me, forgives me, and remains committed to me in spite of all the times I’ve hurt her and failed her. And vice versa. As 1 John 4:19 tells us, “We love, because He first loved us.”
Marriage works when a husband and wife remember that they are two sinners living together in a state of grace. It stops working when either of them forgets.

© Copyright 2008 by FamilyLife. All rights reserved.

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April 01, 2008

Casting Your Cares

C - Come! Quit stewing about your problem and come to the Lord in prayer!
A - Acknowledge that you are weak and need His help.
R - Repent for not trusting God's love for you, even when things seem out of control.
E - Exchange thoughts about your problems with thoughts about God's care for you.
S - Stand on the truth of God's Word. He is might, awesome, & won't abandon you!

This was in a hand out that I picked up our church, The River. I thought that it was so AWESOME that I just had to share. The following from Pray! Magazine, Issue 37, pp. 25-26 was also in the handout:

"Have you ever carried a heavy purse, or backpack full of all the 'stuff' you need for the day? Sometimes we also carry heavy loads of feelings, troubles, and worries, and it saps our energy and joy. God wants you to know that it's okay to bring all those feelings and needs to Him. You can pour out your heart! You don't have to put on a happy face when you pray. You can tell God even when you're really angry, afraid, or sad. So lighten the load! Ask God for His help, and two great things happen. His peace will fill your heart and de-stress your mind. Your prayers will pave the way for God to work out an answer to your situation."

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March 31, 2008

Something to Think About

“God owns it all.”

“Every financial decision you make is ultimately a spiritual decision about how God would like you to prioritize your money.”

Both of these quotes are from Ron Blue. For more information on Ron, check out his bio at: http://www.crown.org/AboutCrown/Bios/RonBlue.aspx.

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March 21, 2008

Podcasts!

I love podcasts! I am able to hear all my favorite teachers from Living Word still even though we attend a new church here in Faribault. I am also able to listen to Scott and Amanda Hodge's teachings from their church Orchard Valley Community Church in Aurora, Illinois. Isn't technology great? Now, I just need to purchase an iPhone. If you would like to send a donation to contribute to Stephanie's iPhone fund, my address is 4460 Roberds Lake Trl, Faribault, MN 55021-2228. :-)

To subscribe to Living Word's podcasts, here is the link: http://www.lwcc.org/GENERAL/podcast.cfm

For Orchard Valley Community's podcasts, here is the link:
http://theorchard.wordpress.com/podcast-setup/

Enjoy all the good teaching from the Word of God!

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Holy Week

This week is a special week on the Christian calendar. Today is Good Friday. The day that we commemorate Jesus' death on the cross. I am hoping to watch "The Passion" tonight after our Good Friday service at The River. If we don't watch it tonight, I would like to watch it tomorrow morning or tomorrow evening. I am not really sure about letting David watch it yet due to the graphic nature of the movie. He did just turn six, and he knows about what Jesus did on the cross. Yet, I am still hesitant. Please feel free to voice your opinion either by email: sgulland@marykay.com or post a comment.

I am currently taking a class at our church. The book we are using is called The Journey to Freedom. Before our Encounter Weekend next weekend, we have been focusing on the truth of the Gospel and the power of the cross. Now that I want to blog about it, I cannot find the book to reference from. :-( Another reason to clean up my bedroom! :-)

As we continue this week until Easter Sunday, remember that Jesus is not still on the cross. He was taken down from the cross and buried. However, that wasn't the end of the story. The rock was moved from the tomb where he was buried and the tomb was empty. Jesus was resurrected from the dead, and he is alive today!!! Jesus is sitting next to God the Father in heaven. Aren't you glad that we serve a God who is so powerful?

Praying that everyone experiences resurrection power this week in every area of their lives!

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March 20, 2008

Love is a Verb!

“Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.” 1 John 3:18 New Living Translation

It is time for the body of Christ to live this verse. I remember that song we use to sing at camp, “They will know we are Christians by our love, by our love. Yes, they’ll know we are Christians by our love.” Do people know that we are Christians just by observing our actions?

God has really been focusing in on me concerning my love walk. I have heard about it and learned about it for years from Joyce Meyer’s ministry, Joel Osteen’s ministry and from various pastors at Living Word Christian Center. However, I have never felt a tug from the Holy Spirit so intense about getting my love walk straightened out.

I am convinced that many people are turned off to Christianity because they see us not living this verse. Yes, words are powerful. To say “I love you” is powerful, but doing something that says “I love you” speaks even louder than the words. Now as Christians, of course, we are not perfect because we are still humans, and we live in a sinful world. However, we can purpose to see love as a verb. Wasn't there a DC Talk song about this?

Today I am purposing to see love as a verb. What can I do for my neighbors, my friends, my family, and anyone I come into contact with to show them the love of God?

Please comment and let me know what you did to show the love of God, who you did it for, and what their reaction was. I love forward to hearing from you!

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March 18, 2008

Walk Uprightly

“For the LORD is righteous, he loves justice; upright men will see His face.” Psalm 11:7

Today's Word from Joel and Victoria

Our God is a god of justice! He loves truth, and He loves what is right. The Bible promises that if we follow His plan and walk uprightly before Him, we will see His face. And God wants you to see His face. He wants to reveal Himself to you in ways you never imagined. Walking uprightly simply means following the Word of God with a humble heart. It means you have a heart to do what is right in the eyes of the Lord. In this day and age, people have so many different ideas of what they think is right, but God is the same yesterday, today and forever, and His standard, the Word of God, will never change. The Bible also says in Psalm 84, that no good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. God longs to pour His blessing and goodness on your life. Choose to follow His Word and allow Him to work His purposes on the inside of you. As you do, you will walk uprightly and see His face and experience His hand of blessing in every area of your life!

A Prayer for Today

Father in heaven, today I submit myself to Your ways. I choose to walk uprightly before You because I long to see Your face. Thank You for guiding and blessing every area of my life. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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March 15, 2008

Hurting People Hurt People!

I have been reading a lot of Joyce Meyer's books lately, and it has really finally begun to sink in that hurting people hurt people. This is something that she says a lot. I have a post stirring in my heart, but I don't quite know how to put it all into words.

If you are hurting, take your hurts to the Lord so you do not continue the cycle of hurting others. Work on your love walk because as we are walking in love it is very difficult to hurt other people. If we do hurt someone, we recognize it right away, and we can work on reconciling the situation.

Purpose today to heal your own hurts and help others to heal their wounds so we can be the church that God has called us to be!

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March 10, 2008

My Birth Verse

"He is your praise; he is your God, who performed for you those great and awesome wonders you saw with your own eyes." Deuteronomy 10:21 NIV

To find out your birth verse, visit http://www.birthverse.com/mybirthverse.cfm.

Have a wonderful day in the Lord!

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September 12, 2007

A Short Course in Packaging (Your Communication That Is!)

A Short Course in Packaging

In communicating with our partners, truth should supply the content, and love should supply the package. It takes both, working together, to make a successful product. All of us need to become packaging experts, because in communication, as in manufacturing, packaging is everything. Five simple principles can help us become better packagers of the truth.

1. Choose a package your mate will like. Bringing up a complaint or a concern is sometimes a nasty business, so the goal is to look for the most diplomatic way to do it. Try to introduce a complaint with a praise, express approval before disapproval, point out what was done right before what was done wrong, find fault without assigning blame, and recognize good intentions before pointing out bad actions. The goal is to choose a package your mate will like. Tailor the package to her specific needs and wants, and you'll find that your words get a much better reception.

2. Make sure the package fits the product. We make three common errors when we're first learning the art of package design. Sometimes the package is too small—we're a little too sparing on our expression of praise or approval. Sometimes the package is too big, and then the gift inside is a bit of a disappointment. Sometimes the package is too transparent, and then our attempt to speak the truth in love looks like empty flattery or manipulation.

3. Change the package often. The first time you choose to introduce a complaint with a praise, you may be very pleased with the results. Be careful! We tend to think in formulas. A formula mind-set might reason, "Hey, that worked. I should do that again next time." And it might work the next time—but with slightly less impressive results. Once the approach begins to look like a formula, it loses its genuineness, and if it begins to feel manipulative, it's certain to make your mate angry.

4. Take the time to admire a beautiful package. A beautifully wrapped package is a work of art, and art should be admired. Speaking the truth in love requires awareness, discipline, and practice, and that kind of effort deserves recognition. The next time your mate extends a beautifully wrapped gift to you, make sure she's aware that you noticed. Try "Thank you for saying it that way," or, "That was a very thoughtful way of putting it."

5. Deliver the package! Someone once said, "To love someone and not tell them is like wrapping a beautiful gift but never giving it away." Speaking the truth in love begins with a change in attitude, but it should not end there. Don't wait for your next complaint to begin to communicate praise, approval, gratitude, and encouragement. Give away the gifts of gratitude and encouragement frequently and freely.

This is from the book The Seven Conflicts by Tim & Joy Downs. Check it out!!!

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September 11, 2007

Can You Forgive?

Hello everyone! I know that today is the sixth anniversary of 9/11. I cannot believe that it was six years ago that this tragedy occurred. I wish I had something profound to share, but I simply do not. Instead, I am going to post an article that was in my inbox. I hope this helps you grow in your relationships with Jesus and others.

Up-Close Forgiveness

By Dennis Rainey

If you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. Matthew 6:14

I am often reminded of what C. S. Lewis said: “Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until he has something to forgive.” How true. It’s not until forgiveness becomes personal and costly that it takes on its actual size and weight.

But perhaps some of what troubles us about forgiveness is that we don’t understand what it is and what it isn’t.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean:

  • Excusing what someone did to you
  • Forgetting what happened
  • Denying, or stuffing, your feelings
  • Reconciling instantly every time

It does mean:

  • Embracing the offender—Christ modeled forgiveness at its best when He forgave and welcomed back those who hurt Him the most.
  • Being proactive—When Jesus said from the cross, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34), He was forgiving people before they even asked for it.
  • Surrendering the right to get even—The essence of forgiveness, especially in marriage, is letting go of our rights to punish and see justice done. Forgiveness is evident when one spouse ceases to demand restitution for hurt feelings and wounded pride.

The other night when Barbara and I were praying together, I turned to Barbara and said, “Sweetheart, before we pray, there’s something I need to ask forgiveness for.” Then after some dialogue, the words “I forgive you” were spoken by Barbara. That’s when you know your marriage is what it was meant to be—a relationship in which forgiveness can flow at the slightest offense. Forgiveness is one of the most important qualities you must practice if your marriage is to become great.

Discuss: Talk about the definition of forgiveness . . . surrendering the right to get even. Is there anything you need to ask forgiveness for?

Pray: Pray that God will show you both how to be aggressive in pursuing forgiveness and appropriately quick in granting forgiveness.

This week’s Marriage Memo is from Dennis and Barbara Rainey’s new book, Moments With You. A sequel to their best-selling Moments Together for Couples, this new book offers 365 new daily devotions. To order this brand-new resource, click here.

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September 10, 2007

I Feel Like a Model of Beauty When I . . .

"am reflecting God’s love onto the world, being a patient mother, loving wife, healthy woman and forgiving human being. I believe beauty is something greater than appearance. It’s being real and letting your inside appearance influence your outside appearance. Model beauty on the inside and the outside will follow."

When do you feel like a model of beauty? Post your answer on my blog. I cannot wait to see what people have to say.

The above response is one of my friend's answers. She answered this question to complete her "Model of Beauty Search" entry form. This is a contest that Mary Kay is currently running. I am VERY excited about it because there will be four grand prize winners who will receive the following: airfare for two to New York City, transportation to and from their hotel, lodging for their time in New York, a professional makeover & photo shoot, and FINALLY . . . a $500 shopping spree!!! Cool, huh? If you want in on this deal, you need to schedule a makeover with me so you can get your entry form postmarked by this Saturday, September 15th.

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September 01, 2007

God Made You Special & He Loves You Very Much!

"God didn't have time to make a nobody, only a somebody. I believe that each of us has God-given talents within us waiting to be brought to fruition."– Mary Kay Ash

Make sure to use your God-given gifts and talents today and every day of your life. Let's make a difference for Jesus in this generation. Have a GREAT Labor Day weekend!!!

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August 31, 2007

Who Are You to Judge?

Do not judge lest you be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. Matthew 7:1-2

Perhaps the greatest roadblock to loving confrontation is the well-known "log" that seems lodged in your eyes. Such handicapped vision inevitably distorts our relationships, both with God and with each other.

Here are five tips Barbara and I have found useful in keeping judgment out of confrontation:

1. Check your motivation. Are you bringing this up to help or to hurt? Prayer is the best way to check our motives. When we take the situation to God and He shines His light on us and the problem, then we usually see our motivation for what it is.

2. Check your attitude. Loving confrontation says, "I care about you." Don't hop on your bulldozer and bury your mate.

3. Check the circumstance. Pick a suitable time, location and setting. Don't confront your mate the moment he or she walks in the door after a hard day's work, at mealtime or in front of others.

4. Check to see what other pressures may be present. Be sensitive to where others are coming from. What's the context of their lives right now?

5. Be ready to take it as well as dish it out. Sometimes confronting someone can boomerang-he or she may have some stuff saved up for you that will spill out when you bring up an issue. If you expect others to listen, to understand, to hear you out and to accept your point of view, be ready to do the same yourself.

Discuss: Think of an issue or complaint you may want to air with your mate. Ask yourself if you are "projecting"-seeing your own faults in others. Before confronting them, reflect on whether the issue might be solved by "weeding your own garden" first.

Pray: That you can see your marriage relationship objectively, being sure you are willing to be judged by the same standards you hold for your mate.

---Excerpted from "Moments Together for Couples" by Dennis and Barbara Rainey. Copyright 1995 by Dennis and Barbara Rainey. All rights reserved. To purchase the book, visit http://www.familylife.com/1-800-358-6329/detail.asp?id=1170

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August 30, 2007

Managing Conflict God's Way

This was a devotional I received the other morning via email, and I wanted to share it with everyone. Be prepared to be touched & changed by the Word of God!!!

The Gentle Art of Confrontation

But speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him, who is the head, even Christ. Ephesians 4:15

No family is without conflicts, and when we let conflicts simmer without confrontation, they have a habit of boiling over and affecting our spiritual lives. William Wordsworth said: "He who has a good friend needs no mirror." Family members can learn to be each other's best friend by learning the gentle art of confrontation. Blessed is the marriage where both spouses feel the other is a good friend - one who will listen, reflect back, understand and work through whatever needs to be dealt with. Occasionally all this requires loving confrontation.

Of course, we must face the fact that some of us don't want to be confronted. Some people would rather be comfortable than Christlike. Many of Barbara's best statements to me are the ones that hurt a bit, but I need to hear them because they keep me on the right track.

Learning loving confrontation starts with love. As 1 Corinthians 13 points out, love expects the best of others. There's no way to confront someone else productively if you expect the worst or have a chip on your shoulder.

Loving confrontation is not nagging. It states its position without dragging it out for days. Being nagged at is no fun. Someone has said it's like being nibbled to death by a duck. Christian confrontation doesn't accuse; it focuses on "I" language, with my saying plainly how I feel. It avoids "You" language, which inevitably sounds condemning. There's a world of difference between saying, "I really don't like arriving at church late - can I do something to help?" and "You always make us late!"

Also, keep in mind that the people you love, but need to confront, are not your enemies. Your mate is never your enemy. Christian confrontation requires that you speak the truth - but always in love.


Discuss: Areas of agitation you try to suppress in order to keep a smooth relationship. Are you being honest with yourself or those you love? When should you bring up a problem issue?

Pray: For the courage to confront lovingly and also for the wisdom to know how to speak the truth in love.
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Excerpted from "Moments Together for Couples" by Dennis and Barbara Rainey. Copyright 1995 by Dennis and Barbara Rainey. All rights reserved. To purchase the book, visit http://www.familylife.com/1-800-358-6329/detail.asp?id=1170

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August 22, 2007

When You Give God Your Best by Lynne Hammond

There's one key to receiving from God that is often overlooked. When we have it, our prayers can sail effectively to heaven on the winds of the Holy Spirit. When we don't, they seem to fall heavily to the ground—earthbound and unanswered. What is this often neglected yet undeniably vital key? Simply this: a clear conscience. Faith and a clear conscience are inseparable. We find them walking hand in hand in 1 Timothy 1:5 where we are admonished to love with a pure heart, "a good conscience, and… faith unfeigned." We find them together again in verse 19 where we are urged to hold fast to "faith and a pure conscience; which some having put away concerning faith have made shipwreck." We find them forever intertwined with answered prayer in the letter of John which tells us that when "…our consciences are clear, we can come to the Lord with perfect assurance and trust, and get whatever we ask for because we are obeying him and doing the things that please him" (1 John 3:21-22, TLB). Never forget this: if your conscience is bothering you, it will always undermine the faith in your heart. Even though you know what God has promised in His Word, even though you firmly believe it, you will slip into doubt and begin to waver. You will suddenly be unsure that God will truly keep those promises to you.

WHEN SIN SNEAKS IN

What can we do to avoid that uncertainty? How can we make sure we keep our consciences perfectly clear? We must steer clear of sin. That's so obvious it almost goes without saying. What is not always so obvious, however, is exactly how we do that. We know, of course, how to avoid the big blunders like murder, adultery, lying, and hating our brother. But we also know there are times when sin sneaks in beneath the radar of our awareness. There are times when we sense that we've somehow grieved the Holy Spirit but we're not fully sure what we did wrong. I remember one time about three and a half years ago when that happened to me. The Lord had spoken to my heart and directed me to begin giving a particular amount in the offering every time I went to a church service. It was a larger amount than I had been accustomed to giving and it stretched my faith so, for a while, I pondered it, wondering if I was accurately hearing the Lord. But the direction persisted until it was lodged so firmly in my heart I knew I had heard from God. Even so, however, it was challenging to obey His instruction at times. When we went to conventions, for example, we might attend several meetings a day for a whole week. That meant I'd be giving the specified amount 11 or 12 times in a single week. I'd have to start building my faith in advance just so I'd be ready for the offerings!

DO SOMETHING DIFFICULT

You might ask, why on earth would God ask me to do something so spiritually and financially strenuous. One reason is that He wanted to lift me to a higher level of prosperity. Years ago, Mac and I saw in Psalm 35:27 that God "takes pleasure in the prosperity of His servant." We believed that and looked to God to increase our finances in a supernatural way. We expected Him to give money to us so that we could give money to others and become a clearing-house through which He could bless His people. Of course, we also learned that God's formula for prosperity is seedtime and harvest. We plant financial seeds by giving to God. Then He gives the increase. As Luke 6:38 says, "Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you" (NKJ). I assure you, it takes faith to give that way. And God has worked steadily with us to help us strengthen our faith in that area by giving us assignments or exercises. Through the years, He would instruct us to give certain amounts; we would get in agreement, obey and God would increase us. Sometimes we would have to obey two or three times and increase our seed before we would get our harvest. I finally figured out that was usually because we didn't fully obey Him the first time. He'd tell us to give a specific amount and we'd say, "Uh… that's a little much." Then we'd compromise by giving half of it. Later we'd give the other half and that's when our harvest would come. Over time, as God has worked with us that way, our faith has continually developed and grown. Some would say, "But I thought faith comes just by hearing the Word." It does come that way. But it is developed by exercise. In that respect, your spirit is much like your body. You can fuel your physical body and keep it alive simply by feeding it. But to strengthen it, you have to do something difficult. If you just let your arm hang by your side for a few months without using it at all, it would become weak and limp (no matter how much good food you ate). But if you use it to lift weights every day, it will grow strong.

THE OFFERING THAT OFFENDED THE LORD

I don't mind telling you, giving those offerings the Lord told me to give three years ago provided me with me a real, faith workout. But I diligently stayed with it until one particular service. I don't really know what happened to me in that service. I guess I just wasn't paying attention. Somehow the offering time slipped up on me and I thoughtlessly grabbed a couple of dollars from my purse, tossing them in the bucket as it passed by. When the service was over, I noticed that for some reason my heart seemed grieved. I didn't even know why at first. So I sought the Lord about it. I retraced my spiritual steps until I realized that by casually dumping that measly offering in the bucket that night, I had sinned. I had been disobedient to the Lord. Later that evening, I was reading Hebrews 10:38 which says, "Now the just shall live by faith: but if any man draw back, my soul shall have no pleasure in him" (KJV). As soon as I read those words, I knew I had drawn back from the direction of the Lord that night. So I immediately repented and told Him I'd double up in the next offering. But, thank God, I didn't stop there! I kept reading until I got to Hebrews 11:4: By faith Abel offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, by which he obtained witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts: and by it he being dead yet speaketh. (KJV) Through that verse, the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to a greater revelation. I began to see not only what God wanted me to do but why He wanted me to do it.

WOULD YOU GIVE FLUFFY?

As I read about Abel, it dawned on me that when it comes to giving, God isn't as interested in quantity as He is in quality. Abel's gift delighted the Lord not because it was so large but because it was his very best. He gave it wholeheartedly in an attitude of faith. Abel loved God so much that only the best was good enough for his God and for him. As for the offering given by his brother, Cain, that was a very different story. We can find that story in Genesis, chapter four where the Bible says: And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the Lord. And she again bare his brother Abel. And Abel was a keeper of sheep, but Cain was a tiller of the ground. And in process of time it came to pass, that Cain brought of the fruit of the ground an offering unto the Lord. And Abel, he also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of the fat thereof. And the Lord had respect unto Abel and to his offering: But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell. And the Lord said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen? If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. (verses 1-7 KJV) Let me ask you something. How in the world could it possibly be a sin to bring an offering to the Lord? Bringing an offering is a good thing! The Bible instructs us to do it. Yet here we clearly see that Cain didn't do well when he gave. He had somehow stumbled into sin. How? He sinned by failing to give God his best. He just brought some of what he had to the Lord. His heart wasn't really in it. He picked out a few of the fruits and vegetables he had grown and said, "Well, that's enough for God. It's not the prize pick of the crop but it will do." Abel, however, had an entirely different perspective. He went out to the pasture and said, "It's offering time! And since I love God with all my heart I want to give Him my very best." Then he looked over the flock and saw Spot, but Spot wasn't his best. He saw Wooly, but Wooly wasn't his best. He saw Mutton, but Mutton wasn't his best. Then he saw Fluffy. Fluffy was Abel's pride and joy. If Abel had been a member of the 4H club, Fluffy would have won him a ribbon at the fair. So Abel said, "Fluffy, you're the one. I'm going to give you to God because I want to give my very best to Him!" That may sound silly but, the fact is, God was so delighted with Fluffy that He wrote about it in the New Testament and said that offering is still speaking of Abel's faith!

THAT'S WHAT GOD CALLS PERFECT!

If you want to be a person who pleases God, this story should be music to your ears. It assures you that you don't have to be rich or talented or superbly skilled in order to bring God something that delights Him. All you have to do is give Him your very best—and that is something you can always do. Granted, your best might be different from somebody else's best. Their best might be more expensive or more naturally impressive than yours. But that doesn't make any difference to God. When you give your best to the Lord in wholehearted love for Him, God looks at your gift and calls it perfect! I'm not just talking about the financial gifts you give Him, either. I'm talking about what you give to Him in every area of life. After all, God doesn't just want your money, He wants all of you. That's why Romans 12:1 says, "I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service" (KJV). When we consider all that God has done for us, it's only reasonable to give our whole lives to Him as a sacrifice! Does that mean we should climb up on an altar and let somebody burn us up? No, it means that every day we are to give Him our best all day long. We are to live the best we know how to live. We are to be the best friend to others that we know how to be. We are to be the best husband or wife, the best employee, the best church member that we can possibly be. Every day, in everything we do, we should do our absolute best for the praise and glory of God. That is an excellent sacrifice.

EVEN FLUFFY HAD HER FLAWS

"But Lynne," you might say, "sometimes my best doesn't look very good. Sometimes I fall far short and seem unable to give the perfect gift that God is worthy of!" I know. So do I. So does every other believer. But that's okay. Abel's sacrifice was imperfect, too. Even Fluffy in all her beauty had her flaws. Even she fell short of the glory of God. Although I wasn't there to see her, I know she did because by the time Abel came along Adam had already sinned. He'd already committed high treason, and sold out to Satan. The curse was in the earth. Imperfection had set in, so if you'd taken a magnifying glass and looked at Abel's little sheep, you would have seen something wrong with her. But you know what you wouldn't have seen anything wrong with? Abel's heart! It was right toward God. It was wholly turned toward Him in love. And in the end, that's all that really mattered. The same is true today. God isn't looking at our Fluffies. He isn't looking at the amount of our checks. He isn't looking at the mistakes we make when we endeavor to do His will. He is looking at our hearts to see if we're withholding something from Him or if we're keeping the command He gave us in Matthew 22:37. "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind" (KJV). He knows when we're giving our all to Him and that's what He considers our best. We know when we're giving our all, too, and that clears our conscience of all condemnation so that we have hearts full of confidence toward Him. My, how God longs and searches for hearts like that! How He desires to find and bless them. Second Chronicles 16:9 says, "…the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him."

THE KEY TO COMING BOLDLY

Think about that verse for a moment. Think about God searching the world over for a heart wholly dedicated to Him. Wouldn't you like to come to God in prayer knowing you had a heart like that? Wouldn't it be great if you could approach His throne, not because you were trying to get God's attention but because He was trying to get yours? Just imagine what it would be like to start your prayer time knowing that God Himself is nudging and tugging on you saying, "Come on, ask Me for something! I've been looking all over the earth trying to find someone like you to bless. I want to show Myself strong on your behalf. Just ask and you'll receive!" I dare say that would make it much easier to come boldly to the throne of grace to receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need (Hebrews 4:16). That would make it much easier to believe that you receive what things soever you desire when you pray (Mark 11:24). That would make it easier to be sure that you can ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you (John 15:7). If you think such boldness is beyond your reach, think again. It's as close to you as your own conscience. And you can have it every day for the rest of your life if you'll only give God your best.

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August 21, 2007

If You Were to Die Today, Where Would You Go?

IF you should die today are you 100% sure - sure beyond the shadow of a doubt that you would go to heaven? If you feel you can say yes, please read on.

IF you should die and stand before God and He asked you why He should let you into Heaven, what would you say?

If your answer is, "I am sure I would go to Heaven because I have tried to be a good person," it's the wrong answer so please read on.

Salvation, or the gift of eternal life cannot be earned. To have earned it you would have had to live your life without ever sinning - something that no man except Jesus Christ Himself has ever done. This gift of the forgiveness of our sins, the gift of eternal life called salvation is just that - a gift. It can't be earned. Like any gift, it's free and only has to be received. The following verses help you see these glorious and eternal promises and truths.

We can know - not hope - that we have eternal life! (I John 5:13) "That these things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God."

No one has been able to live a sinless life. (Romans 3:10) "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one." (Romans 3:23) "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God."

Sin has touched every human being's life. (Romans 5:12) "Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned."

We deserve punishment for our sins but Jesus offers us the free gift of eternal life. (Romans 6:23) "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord."

God isn't waiting for us to get cleaned up first; He'll help us with that. He accepts us while we are still sinners so, there is no sense in putting it off. (Romans 5:8) "But God commendedth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."

Faith in Jesus Christ, and the receiving of the gift of salvation, is initiated by believing in our hearts and saying what we believe to God first, and then others. (Romans 10:9-13) "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shall be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved."

If we say we haven't sinned, we have lied to ourselves. When we admit that we have, God is faithful to continually cleanse us. (1 John 1:8-10) "If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word has no place in our lives."

Jesus is waiting for you right now! Don't put it off for a second. Let Him into your life! (Revelations 3:20) "Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me."

Pray this prayer of Salvation to God from your heart and mean it. If you would like to ask Jesus into your heart now, simply pray this prayer to God and mean if from your heart. A miracle will happen as you pray. You will be forgiven and brought into the family of God.

Pray this Prayer: Heavenly Father, I do believe that Jesus is your Son. That He came to earth to die from my sins. That He rose again from the dead. Jesus, please come into my heart. Please forgive me of all my sins. Please wash them all away. Please come and live in my heart. Please teach me your ways. Please help me to learn and understand your Word. Please give me Christian friends that love you and can help me grow in your Word. Please help me find a church that will teach me the Bible, and help me grow in knowing you. I thank you now in Jesus name, Amen.

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Today's Word with Joel & Victoria

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A Blameless Heart

Today's Scripture

“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth to show Himself strong in behalf of those whose hearts are blameless toward Him” (2 Chronicles 16:9 AMP).

Today's Word from Joel and Victoria

Do you need God to move in your life today? The Bible says that God is actually looking to show Himself strong in the earth. He is looking for those who have a blameless heart toward Him. When you open your heart to Jesus and ask Him to forgive you and cleanse you by His blood, then He gives you a blameless heart — then you are the person the Lord is looking to work through! When you understand the fact that God longs to work in your life, your faith will increase. Your hope will increase. And God’s work in your life will increase! Have confidence in this scripture today. Begin to thank God for giving you a clean and blameless heart. Thank Him for choosing to work in your life. As you thank and praise Him, look for His goodness and strength in your life. As you do, you will see God move in unexpected ways today and every day!

A Prayer for Today

Heavenly Father, thank You for the blood of Jesus which cleanses my sins and gives me a blameless heart. Search my heart today and remove anything that isn’t pleasing to You. I open my heart to You and invite You to work in every area of my life. I bless You and thank You for Your faithfulness. In Jesus Name. Amen.

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August 20, 2007

Today's Word with Joel & Victoria

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Set Your Hope

Today's Scripture

“Set your hope wholly and unchangeablely on the grace (divine favor) that is coming to you when Jesus Christ (the Messiah) is revealed.” (I Peter 1:13)

Today's Word from Joel and Victoria

Is your hope set on God’s divine favor in your life today? One translation of this verse says, “Look forward to more and more of God’s favor.” That’s God’s dream — to pour out His goodness and grace upon you. He wants to help you get ahead in this life. He wants to lead you to the right job. He wants to lead you to the right relationship. But here’s the key: we have to be on the lookout for more of God’s favor. That tells me that we can’t get stagnant. Don’t ever think that you can’t rise any higher. God wants to do more than you can even ask or think. It says in Ephesians, He wants to show us the immeasurable, limitless, surpassing greatness of His free favor. In other words, God wants to go far and above what we’re used to! He wants to show you favor in unusual and extraordinary ways. Set your hopes higher today. Increase your expectations of what God will do in your life. As you open your heart and mind to His unlimited favor, you will experience the abundance He has in store for you!

A Prayer for Today

Father, thank You for your increase in every area of my life today. I choose to set my hope in You knowing that You want to do more in my life than I can ever imagine. Teach me to be a vessel used by You today. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

Believing that your faith will be increased through this message and that you will experience more and more of God's favor. When you see God's favor at work in your life, simply say out loud, "That is the favor of God." I think that I heard Jesse Duplantis talk about doing this because it made him aware of all that God was doing in his life. I have been doing this and it not only increases my faith in what God has done, but it also encourages me to stretch my faith to believe God's word and causes me to increase my expectations of what God will do in my life!

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